Yesterday, I found myself mulling about expectations. I had read this article in Newsweek about the rage against fatness in the U.S. (I first saw it linked from Lesley at Fatshionista), and thought about the article’s main conclusion that people basically enjoy being angry, and having a target for their anger (even if some of [...]
Archive for August, 2009
On expecting to not be hated
Posted in Fat, Fat Acceptance / Body Acceptance, Ramblings, Uncategorized, tagged fat hate on August 28, 2009 | 13 Comments »
Happpiness & My Writing Mojo
Posted in Body Image, Centeredness, Eating Disorders, Fat, Fat Acceptance / Body Acceptance, HAES, intuitive eating, tagged ADD, ADHD, Body Image, depression, Eating Disorders, fat acceptance, HAES, intuitive eating, size acceptance on August 27, 2009 | 6 Comments »
I’m just not used to being happy. Thank you, depression. I like being happy… but it messes with my blog writing mojo. I’m going to have to learn to work with the happiness… My best posts seem to spring out of my most difficult times. When things are going really good for me, I [...]
Open Threadiness 08.27.09
Posted in Uncategorized on August 27, 2009 | 2 Comments »
This week I am on vacation and determined to do nothing productive… so, I forgot the open thread yesterday! Whoops! Better late than never… Hubby is out of town. I chose to stay behind to take care of our stray. Last week hubby tried to capture Mr. Orange, but ended up with a bloody knee [...]
My Stupid Racist Family Part II
Posted in Rants, tagged racism on August 23, 2009 | 13 Comments »
For those of you who missed out on part I, click here. In summary, my mother said my cousin wasn’t invited to any family function in the future (such as the family reunion) because she has a black partner and two biracial children (black and white). I told her this was racist… drama ensued… Today [...]
On being a recovery goddess
Posted in Body Image, Centeredness, Eating Disorders, Fat, Fat Acceptance / Body Acceptance, Food, intuitive eating, Personal, Ramblings, Whooo hooo!!!, tagged acceptance, Centeredness, compulsive overeating, Diets, diets don't work, Eating Disorders, fat acceptance, HAES, happiness, intuitive eating, intuitive living, love, Personal, self acceptance, self respect, self-esteem, size acceptance, weight loss on August 20, 2009 | 5 Comments »
Being a recovery goddess brings with it a certain amount of responsibility. It takes a certain type of person to be a recovery goddess (mind you, not a recovery FAIRY but a recovery goddess). It takes flair, gumption, spunk, patience and objectivity. There’s a certain maturity that comes with being a recovery goddess. The open [...]
Open Threadiness 08.19.09
Posted in Uncategorized on August 19, 2009 | 17 Comments »
Whooo hooooo! Open Wednesday! I will start the rambling with a sincere wish that I had a jacuzzi in my apartment… mmmm… hot water jets… ((drool))… –AngryGrayRainbows
Adventures in Acceptance
Posted in Body Image, Fat, Fat Acceptance / Body Acceptance, HAES, intuitive eating, Ramblings, Uncategorized, Work Life, tagged Body Image, Eating Disorders, fat acceptance, HAES, intuitive eating, self-esteem, size acceptance on August 16, 2009 | 7 Comments »
I’m going to ramble a bit about all the stuff I’ve been up to and hope that it will circle back to acceptance and/or related topics. Wish me luck… As some of you may have already read in a comment that I posted, I got that bookstore job. Monday through Friday was exhausting with [...]
Wear clothes that fit
Posted in Body Image, Diets, Eating Disorders, Fat, Fat Acceptance / Body Acceptance, HAES, intuitive eating, Personal, Ramblings, Uncategorized, tagged acceptance, Body Acceptance, Body Image, compulsive overeating, diets don't work, Eating Disorders, fat acceptance, HAES, happiness, intuitive eating, intuitive living, obesity, self acceptance, self respect, self-care, self-esteem, size acceptance, weight loss on August 15, 2009 | 17 Comments »
The title says it all. Please, please, please…if you want to show yourself the ultimate in love, WEAR CLOTHES THAT FIT! When I started the Intuitive Eating process I was encouraged to wear clothes that fit. That sounds so simple and yet if you don’t pay attention, you’ll wear the wrong size and throw your whole [...]
I’m not the inspiration I wanted to be
Posted in Body Image, Diets, Eating Disorders, Fat, Fat Acceptance / Body Acceptance, Food, intuitive eating, Personal, Ramblings, Rants, Words, tagged acceptance, Body Acceptance, Body Image, Calorie Restriction, compulsive overeating, diets don't work, Eating Disorders, Fat, fat acceptance, HAES, happiness, intuitive eating, obesity, self acceptance, self-esteem, size acceptance, weight loss on August 12, 2009 | 25 Comments »
I spoke to AGR today and told her that I really thought I should be taken off this blog. I told her I had no time, the job was killing me and that I just didn’t feel “recovered enough” to post anymore. I told her that I felt like I should be much better at [...]