I seriously love books. When I first met hubby, I joked to him that I had a book infestation in my apartment and when I turned on the light books would go scampering under the bed or in the closet like cockroaches. To try to avoid books taking over every surface and stacks climbing the walls, I give away lots of books to people I know. I donate them to small and poor libraries from where I come from. I especially like to help people discover books that they love that they didn’t even know existed. I’m not sure if I have any skill for it, but I try. My oldest friend and her husband tell me that they really love the books I give them. “Towing Jehovah” went over especially well.
I have an education in Finance. I like math, which is a big reason why I thought I’d like Finance. But, Finance is really a bunch of superficial and political jockeying that I really hate. If I had any idea of the political world I was preparing myself for, I wouldn’t have touched Finance with a 20 foot pole. I would’ve just been a math major or become a social worker instead… something I could really enjoy and believe in. I quit my job in big corporate/huge multinational finance in February. I don’t miss it. It paid well, but it wasn’t worth it. It was soul crushing.
I am lucky to have a husband that doesn’t need me to work. I’ve been healing the wounds of burn-out all summer and I may be starting to discover some jobs that might actually let me be me, rather than pressuring me into some person that I’m not and that I don’t even like. I wonder if I’d be happy in a bookstore… The pay won’t be what it was in big corporate finance, but do I care? I’m not sure yet. It is a huge reduction in pay to start with, but it could lead somewhere better like my own store or managing a store or something. Goodness knows I am passionate about books. I like to be around books that I don’t even want to read, but mostly I like to read books. I have no idea where this book-love of mine comes from, but it has strong and I can’t remember not being like this. As a very young child, I would take stacks of my Golden Books outside to read and I would get lost for hours. One of my favorite splurges has always been to go to a bookstore and buy a dozen books at a time. It is just so exciting to me…
So, I applied at Borders. I have an interview on Friday. But, part of me is not sure if I even want to go through with this. I fear getting burned out again. I wonder if being around something I love will continue to feel more important to me than making a lot of money. I remember workplace politics and don’t miss them… and I fear getting back into that ring again.
On the other hand, the job would be part-time, which would limit my exposure. If I don’t like this path, I can always get back on the finance path or something related. My skills in finance are still considered very
“hot” and I don’t doubt that once there are job openings again that I could get a job in finance. Apparently expertise in SAP, such as mine, is rare and desireable. SAP is a big, complicated software used by 80% of the Fortune 100 (I believe… I may have this stat slightly wrong). It’s nice to know I have other things to fall back on.
Then… there’s ya know… my ego. Will it cause me a lot of pain about the pay-cut and not working in a white-collar environment? I hope not. When I notice superficial thoughts like that, I like to challenge them. Maybe this is just the sort of challenge that I need to put my ego further in check… who knows. Well, not that I NEED a white-collar environment. I would give up white-collar jobs all together to get a good non-profit job. I seriously love non-profits more than anything else. But… Borders is no non-profit. Maybe this job could just be something to do until something I like even more comes up? Maybe I will fall in love with it and climb the ladder of the bookstore and end up making some decent money in time?
I think that I think too much. Maybe the best course is to just take one moment at a time, listen to myself, make the best decisions I can and then go from there… Deep breaths…
Yes, I definitely do let overthinking get the best of me – especially when it comes to work. Now that is something to chew on…
–AngryGrayRainbows